Attraction between two persons is thought to be a sufficient reason to live together. The attraction that does not wear off leads to a fulfilling relationship. All of us are constantly growing and evolving but if one person remains unchanged while the other changes problems begin to brew. If the attraction is genuine and unselfish both will accept each other and be happy in their togetherness.
When we imagine and suspect change we begin to be confused. This confusion is compounded by lack of proper communication. We should accept that partners will evolve and change. What is needed is being happy in each other's company. To do so both have to make a constant effort to have good thoughts about each other and lovingly voice their doubts.
It is necessary to think well of each other for a relationship to blossom.
4 comments:
what nonsense you are not happy in your marriage you are just drifting together passion friendship understanding all are important we cannot live like two losers that is wasting live
when you have seen both the sides the passionate and the indifferent then only you should air your views please stop writing your blogs make no sense I think you have achieved nothing in life
I like your take on attraction in a marriage. I believe there is some sound truth in your post that is sometimes forgotten by couples in a serious relationship.
Communication is always the key, and doubts should always be addressed. I speak from my personal experience.
I don't agree at all with the comments stated by the Anonymous up there. The writer has clearly said that communication and understanding in a marriage are vital elements. Those comments are rather unsound.
Achieving something in life is not as important as being happy and contented with your own self. Often most of us run after joy and crave for something or the other and the odd person who does not do so is termed a loser. But there are a few people who would rather be happy in their given circumstances and not be part of the rat race.
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